Does he or does he not?

These few days while talking to friends, was just thinking about this issue...

Is it possible to sense if someone likes you?

And most of them gave comments like

"it's quite obvious"

"can see thru the body language"

"you can tell one lor.."

It just amazes me, doesn't it? That the subtle tells more than the direct actions? Like it's not the straight-in-the-face, "i think i like you" kinda stuff but expressed more thru the actions of a person.

But still, there is still so much ambiquity. Cos we deceive ourselves, we try to delude ourselves. We go into the questioning of "does he/she like me or not?" "do u think he/she likes me?" "why did he/she do that?" "why did he/she say something like that?"

All this guessing is pretty unhealthy i think. Why can't we just ask the person straight in the face,i wonder?

Cos we r prideful, fearful of rejection? Or cos we know that nothing much will come out of it, really.

Hmm, just some food for thought arh.

I'm Back

Yes I know.

It's not really been a long period of time. But considering how active this blog was previously, it seems like this place has been untouched for quite a while.

And i am back.

No new address.

No new stuff.

Just a slight change of template. Pls dun tell me u dun see the difference. (No time to change to fanciful ones lar!)

Actually during this period of break, I was still blogging. Just that all entries were kept as drafts. I suppose I needed to stop cos i really wanted 2 evaluate the stuff i was putting up here.

I noe u guys must be thinking, evaluate what? Like hello, it's only blogging.

Yah true it's only blogging. But look at how blogging has gotten so many people into trouble! Look at how many people read Xiaxue or Mr. Brown's blogs. Our culture has changed so much that people do take bloggers, in other words (online diary writers) seriously.

And we thought that only Anne Frank's diary would be published and read by masses

For all u noe, in future when u write your research papers, you can actually quote bloggers.

Oh wait...did u just say they already have started doing so?

But of course, I dun ever think i will become as famous as those mentioned above. After all, my online diary is just a place for my wacky adventures & thoughts of my life.

Most imptly, i dun put up controversial fotos of myself or jokes that will make u laugh at the computer screen when u read them.

Why am i talking about this?

Anyway yah, i really wanna be a responsible blogger cos i know u r reading it. As to how responsible i will be, u will just have to continue reading 2 find out..